"You can stay in the closet because of love, but do not hide away because of fear." When a secret is no longer a secret, it will no longer bring harm. If you are scared to disappoint people you love, I am sure the truth will make them content; If you are scared to be hurt, stand out strong on your feet. The gossip and comment will soon clear up. We are just ordinary people after all.

I tried to distance my family while I was still in the closet. Because of fear, I started to be indifferent towards my surroundings. I only cared about if my secret is going to be disapproved. When I tore open the closet, I realized the unnecessary fear was what kept me away from my loved ones. I used to think going home is a burden, now it is something I look forward to every weekend to spend time with my partner and my parents.